Thursday, August 25, 2011

Men & Women Who Cheat. Why????

I know this is an age long question. I guess no one will ever know the real reason. I have never cheated on my special someone, but I have been cheated on before. My definition of cheating is when your partner or spouse is giving someone else attention that is inappropriate. It can be emotional or physical. People have their own definition of what cheating is, but this is mine.

I was reading this article on, and they listed these situations that most commonly lead to infidelity.

  • Being close or interdependent on someone other than one’s spouse
  • Being around someone who is sexually interested
  • Spending a lot of time one-on-one with someone else
  • Not feeling close or connected to one’s spouse (e.g., feeling lonely, being upset or angry with a spouse, etc.)
  • Situations that create the sense of opportunity - the feeling that one will not get caught (e.g., meeting someone in private, out of town trips, etc.).
  • Situations involving alcohol or drugs

Now, I can see how these situations can lead to someone cheating once, but what happens when a person continues to cheat over and over and over again. Now tell me! What is the reason that they cheat?

In my opinion, so many people take their commitments and promises very lightly. They don’t have any respect for their partner or spouse. They throw around the word love so loosely. But do they really love that person. I think not, maybe a strong like.

What do you think?????????

Here is the link to the article I was reading.

Friday, August 19, 2011

My way of saying thanks!!!

As most of you know I have become a Avon E-Representative. I have been selling Avon products for about one and half months now. It is going very well and I have sold more products than I initially thought I would. I just wanted to thank everyone who is being supportive and for making me your Avon Representative. For Campaign 18, I will be giving a 10% discount to all online orders made between now and 08/29/2011. So for the next two weeks you will be able to receive 10% off your order when you shop my online store.

If you have any questions feel free to send me an email from the online store or comment on the blog post or video below.

So shop til you drop. lol

Thanks Everyone!!!!!

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Cayla's 1'st Twist Out

Hey Diva's and Divo's

Recently I have embarked on a new journey. I am transitioning back to my natural hair. No more RELAXER's for me. I am also going to keep my daughter, Bra'Cayla's hair natural for as long as possible. Last night I conditioned her hair and put it in twist to do a 2 strand twist out. Here is a video with the results plus a few pictures.

The next post I will put mine....

I hope you enjoy and if you have any suggestions let me know!!!